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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Enough is enough!

Is it fair to assume all the things done by one person out of love and admiration should be returned or expected by the other? For example if I scratch your back-you scratch mine, or if I clean, cook, iron, and what ever else is expected out of me, should I "not" expect a little consideration, a little help?

2 comments:

Scizzle said...

I know exactly what you mean. Enough is enough!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

For me, the original post is somewhat confusing. Words such as assume and expect do not compliment love and admiraion. Love is unconditional by all terms and I would need a little more explanation as to why you feel as though enough is enough. In a relationship, actions should reflect a desire, devotion, and dedication to do for someone w/o the need for justification and/or consideration. Of course your partner's actions should reflect similar tones but not necessarily the same actions; it does require mutual respect and if you're not feeling that then your answer is not difficult...and just one more comment, if you are unable to cook, clean, iron, and scratch your back on your own, don't expect someone else to do it for you. Love yourself first genuinely; do you!